Orgasm is a subject that many are not comfortable talking about, especially orgasm in women. This is the primary reason why there is so less awareness surrounding it. If you have been struggling to have that “earth-shattering” moment for you & your partner in the bedroom, we have some tips for you to look into. These can help you spice things up in the bedroom and gain a lasting orgasm in the process.
Five tips for Vaginal Orgasm
You will very rarely find women telling you that they reached a vaginal orgasm. Studies and statistics suggest that just 1 out of 5 women can achieve orgasm via vaginal stimulation. If you are not the one, these tips can help.
1. Focus on foreplay
It is a myth that vaginal orgasm is achieved only through penetration. Foreplay can be a fantastic way for you to achieve that state of euphoria as well. It takes a woman more time to reach their state of arousal. This is why excellent foreplay before sex is a necessity if you want your female partner to reach their orgasm. Make the woman feel desired because that is a crucial part for them to reach their peak.
2. Stimulate the clitoris
Not many men like to “go down” on their female partner. If you want your partner to experience vaginal orgasm, clitoral stimulation is a necessity. The clitoris is the most erogenous and sensitive part of a woman’s body. If you want them to feel satisfied, use your fingers and even your mouth to stimulate and play with their clitoris.
3. Try out different sex positions
This might seem absurd, but the position that you are having sex in matters a lot too. For a woman to experience vaginal orgasm, you need to try out several positions to see which one works best for you & your partner. You want to opt for the position that stimulates their clitoris or G-spot the most. Once you know that, you & your partner are in for a ride.
4. Stick to lube
Instead of using other forms of “lubricants”, stick to lube meant for sexual pleasures. They can help provide moisture and at the same time, provide you with an amazingly smooth experience. Natural dryness is common in women’s vagina so the lube can help amp things up a bit and ensure that both of you are having fun.
5. Concentrate on the pelvic floor muscles
If a gynaecologist has asked to try some Kegel exercises to spice things up in the bedroom, know that they mean something. Kegel exercises help strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. This helps a lot in having better control over your bladders and such that can help you experience an out of the world sex. It also helps boost the overall blood circulation to the vagina, which further helps in reaching that state of euphoria.
Vaginal orgasm isn’t a myth, contrary to popular belief. You need to know the basics around it and how it can help boost your overall sexual life. These tips can come in handy.
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